Ok... just no. I'm not spending time with my brother or his son anymore, period. All day long my nephew literally stuck his ass in my face and cut wet, god-awful smelling fats and my brother just laughed... and he used every cuss word under the son a dozen times... then I said "dude that bathroom is messed up, I walk in and the first thing I see is a guys penis, they need to extend the wall in there" and my brother jumps down my throat and starts telling me off "don't say that shit in front of my 12 year old god damnit he doesn't need to hear that stuff" oh no, but your 12 year old can fart in my face more than a dozen times in 4 hours and swear up a storm... so I went off on my brother and the entire 20 minute ride home I didn't say one word, or when I got out of his car. He isn't going to yell at me and not say anything to his son... I'm not about to take that nonsense.